Tian Tian Yew first encountered infant care centres when she had her first son. As a working mother, she found it tough to obtain quality care for her infant son. Herself having had to shoulder this challenging task of juggling parenthood, employment, and her personal life, Ms Yew set out to right this wrong.
Now, the founder of the Cutie Cottage Childcare Centres and a fervent advocate for breastfeeding, Ms Yew has created a space where parents can trust trained professionals to look after their children while they are at work. Her passion and drive to specialize in this niche of early childhood education intrigued us. We sat down with her for a little chat and got answers to our burning questions.
In Malaysia, it is rare to find childcare centres that accept babies. Cutie Cottage focuses on taking care of babies ageing from 2 months onwards, up to 4 years. About 40–50% of our children are 18 months and below.
We have registered nurses and early childhood educators working as a team, and the centre provides internal infant care training.
Again, one major problem is finding the right ‘partner’ who can care for and nurture your little one. In Malaysia, there is a lack of good and affordable infant care services. When I had my first son, I could not find a babysitter who promoted breastfeeding. I visited centres that were overcrowded with children (ranging from babies to 12 year olds), and employed childcare providers and foreign maids who were not properly trained.
About 6 years ago, I visited a centre that hired foreign maids to take care of young children, one maid took care of 6 babies under the age of 1 year, another maid took care of 10 babies of 12–18 months old, a different maid took care of 15 toddlers of 18–24 months old. The child to caregiver ratio was very high and it was a violation. The centre’s administration hired only foreign maids as care-givers.
Another centre I visited had a maid who was supposed to cook for 40 to 50 after-school children, clean the centre, and take care of 3 babies in a small room next to the kitchen — all at the same time! The maid was so busy, so the babies were kept in the baby cot most of the time. The centres also handled breast milk wrongly, had a lack of transparency, and had a host of many more issues.
Some centres do not welcome parents to enter the premise during operating hours. There is one centre that asks parents to stay outside (i.e. sit at the bench located at the carpark) and the teacher would bring the child out. However, there was a mom who saw the teacher pour away her daughter’s milk and later report that she had finished her milk. Of course, this mom knew she was lying and confronted her.
I have known a centre in which only the person-in-charge(PIC) would do the reporting/daily update; parents do not get to meet the care-givers. The PIC lied about feeding time, lied about the amount of milk taken… and she lied to cover up multiple incidents. I got to know this by talking to some of the care-givers who work there.
In Cutie Cottage, we do advice parents not to interfere when children are having activities, but we welcome parents to breastfeed at our centre. We allow parents to enter the premise as long as they do not disrupt the children. Our CCTV is online for parents to access. This is the transparency I am referring to.
I launched Cutie Cottage hoping to provide childcare services that specialized in infant care. The centre focuses on professionalism and transparency to provide parents with a peace of mind.
We use the Early Year Foundation Stage, England (EYFS) as our program guideline. The weekly activities consist of manipulative activities (activities like threading and scooping promote fine motor skills), language and literacy, communication, arts and crafts, and early numeracy and science courses. We encourage our children to play and we conduct an organized play day once a week. Every Friday, we organize a variety of play activities including heuristic play, messy play, sensory play, and many others.
We consider it an achievement when our children are clearly thriving, happy, and able to recall what they have learnt when they go home.
Young babies frequently falling sick is the toughest challenge in any childcare in the world.
Physical: Hearing, Vision, Mobility (for example, a toddler should be able to walk at 18 months; if not, there is possibility of bone/hip deformity)
Speech Development: Not making any sounds by 12 months, and not saying words by 2 years.
I hope that childcare providers will receive greater recognition and higher salaries which justify their contributions to this industry.
I also hope that more infant-care centres will be located near offices, and subsequently promote breastfeeding.